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MJ received a really cute little blow up pool as a lovely Easter gift from his Grandparents. I’ve been dying to get it blown up and for us to have a great, cool, fun time in it. It get’s extremely warm in our area. Lot’s of 100+degree days in the summer. So this little pool is going to come in handy. Anyways, we quickly realized we had no way to blow up this pool other than good ol’ fashioned Lung Power! My amazing Husband blew, & blew, & blew ’til his face was turning a rainbow of colors.
While Daddy inflated the whale MJ & I changed into our swimsuits & slathered up with sunscreen. We filled the poolwith water (which was ICE cold) & I plopped MJ in. He never as so much cringed from the temperature of the water. I asked Mercer to take a few pictures of us (’cause I’m a picture freak and hellooooo this is his first time in his very first pool, that needs photographic documentation). We had a ball in that tiny little whale pool. MJ loved it so much he would pause at times and Hug his pool. (how freaking adorable is that?!)
This next picture is of Me being absolutely silly for my Husband that was behind the camera. Just having fun and being silly. Normally, I just wouldn’t post a picture of myself in a two piece that’s that revealing for the world to see. But, I had a revelation today as I was prancing about it my bikini. I’m comfortable! In my skin….This is a pretty big deal for me. Because I haven’t been OK with how my body looks naked since before MJ was brewing about in my tummy. My legs store all of my fat. They & my ass will always be plumper. It’s just my DNA. My body changed after having my son. I never got one single stretch mark on my belly while pregnant. But, I did get them on my thighs, quite a few. So I usually wear board shorts over my swim suit. But, I don’t care anymore. A small price to pay for the amazing prize I received. I feel like I just don’t care anymore about having “the perfect body”. Because I do have the perfect body, it just took me some time to get that into my head. I Love myself. I Love the person that I am. And that makes me love all of myself, inside and out. I care about having fun with my family in my back yard , in a tiny whale pool that was filled to the brim with laughter and fun.
This doesn’t mean that I’m going to eat a bag of Oreos every night and gain 4oolbs. because I don’t “care” anymore. I do care about being healthy. I always have, and will continue to do my best to keep myself healthy. I almost didn’t post the picture below because I wasn’t sure how it would be received…But, then I was like why wouldn’t I post a picture of my Son and I have a ridiculously silly-fun time?!
Have you guys ever checked out Medicinal Marzipan? Her blog & mission are amazing, and she is what inspired me to write this post today and share my little story. She is an inspiration in self confidence and self love. Go check her blog out, drink it in & add it to your Google reader.
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19 Responses to “I Love Me, Do You Love You?”
super cute post lady! and might i just say you look ROCKIN in that two-piece! work it, girlie! (-:
i do know what you mean on the self-consciousness front tho. i've lost all my baby weight and then some, but sweet jeebus was i left with stretch marks from hell! it's been really tough for me to get used to the way my tummy looks now, but this post is a great reminder for me to look at poppy AND my own body, and smile because the small price i paid it well worth it, many times over.
love little mj in his pool! i can't wait to buy poppy her first kiddie pool this summer. although luckily for david, we have a bike pump to blow the sucker up! ;D
you're fantastic! love this. cheers!!
1. The pool hugging is ridiculously cute and I can't handle any more of that at all.
2. You look hot. Betty Page level hotness.
That's far too kind! The pool hugging was KILLING me.
you look great. and im totally not just saying that. and that pool is so cute!
=)
Looks like yall had lots of fun! I want that whale pool!
Get it! Seriously adorable, and you plug the hose into it and water shoots out it's "blow hole" except that literally petrified Milo so we had to turn it off.
you are so sweet! thank you so much
I loved this post – and you are SO beautiful! (and have a totally adorable and happy baby!)
thanks for sharing this post with me. xoxoox.
Thank You!
Love this post! I too have had a hard time with my body image after having my son 18 month ago. But I hve come to accept who I am. That is not to say I am not trying to lose more weight but I can say I am fine with my body. Plus, I look at my our son and he gives me so much love and joy every day. I forget about my body issues. And we all know you can’t be timid at the beach/pool when you have an 18 month old running around who won’t sit still. Lol
ZOMG YOU ARE HOTTTT!!! And it looks fucking hot outside, too. Baby pool FTW!
darling you are gorgeous!!! no need to wear board shorts at all. I'm working on the self love too, today I'm wearing a tank and skirt!
Which is BIG for me, so yeah.
P.S. MJ is frickin adorable!!!
Thanks everyone for you nice and encouraging comments. I may have new issues down the road with my body but, for now…I'm OK with me.
You look amazing and that suit is to-die-for cute. As is the adorable water baby. And the whale pool. And a husband that would practically kill himself blowing that giant thing up. You're one lucky woman!
The husband is a very good daddy. That little boy is his world and he would do just about anything for him. I'm so lucky to have a husband that is so active in our child's life.
um, you rock that bikini like no one else. & one day, i'm going to be that comfortable in my own body again – this helps to assure me of that fact! and that pool just looks like too much fun. how long did it end up taking to blow it up? i'm a wimp when it comes to that sort of thing!
I would've passed out and died if I had to blow that thing up. he definitely got the gold star of parenting that day. It took maybe 20 minutes cause he took a few breaks. It would've took me a week to blow up, I'm sure of it.
You look amazing! And I'm glad to see MJ loved his whale pool. I've been looking at that one for my son so it's good to know that it was loved!
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